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I am a naturally Dom Male with some experience (I am being fairly modest truth be known I have been playing in private for around 15years) and I am looking to meet a genuine sub fem who would actually appreciate being part of something special and unique. I am not a full on dungeon master, although I do have a lot of fun equipment. I can and will use punishements if required and I am more than willing to test you limits, pushing them when you feel you can take more as well as pushing them when I feel you can take more. It is not just savagely beating a girl that makes me a viable lifestyle Dom, I am also a kind and loving partner who understands the balance needed to have a succesful Dom/sub relationship. There is a lot more to me than just my Dom side so please feel free to chat and ask any questions you have. I pride myself on being open and honest as I know this is of utmost importance in D/s, afterall, if we cant talk openly and honestly how will we get all our fantasies out in the open for us to
try?
I am genuinely looking for an LTR but realise that most girls out there think this means they will be physically collarred 24/7 and expected to be my slave at all times. Well, that is a great sounding fantasy and if you really want to try it we can but I know from real experience that there needs to be a vanilla aspect if it is to stand a chance of going the distance. It doesnt mean the D/s dynamic is not there, it just means we are able to exist as partners in many aspects of life and then relax into our chosen roles when alone ;)
I kind of think about it like this "I may say what happens in the bedroom but I want to share the choice of what bed to buy and how to decorate it with you as my equal partner"

There is so much more to me than just my Dom side, I enjoy dancing and simple romance, waqks, picnics (which admittadly can turn sexual if we find ourselves alone-lol).I am a self taught artist and have evn sold in a gallery so please feel free to chat and take the time to get to know me, you never know I could be just what you are looking for and better still you could be just what I am looking for ;) x

Aries

Average

5' 7 (1.7 m)

Blue

Caucasian

Never Married

No

Not Sure

Eyes

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Dark Blonde

No pets

Yes

High School Diploma

Full-time

Sales / Marketing

Consultant

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

Yes - Socially

Yes - Socially

Average Joe

Comedic, Dark, Friendly, Outgoing

Arts & Crafts, Camping, Cars, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Dancing, Music, Theater

Clubbing / Bars, Hanging Out With Friends

Depends on you level of experience;
First time or shy? We can meet somewhere safe, a coffee house or local pub, have a drink and a chat (more of a normal date really). If we dont think we're compatible we can simply leave. If we do then I'm happy for you to come back to mine any time :)

A little more confident? Then we can meet at my house or yours, have a chat and take things slowly and if we hit it off then there's nothing to stop us :)


Experienced sub, wanting total domination? Then you just need to come round my house. Dressed to thrill and once you're through the door you can be collared stripped and you can show me your skills ;)

Of course, if you want a little romance too I am more than happy to spend an evening going for a meal, some drinks perhaps a stroll and a chat :)

A loving Dom/sub LTR

Friendly, Cool, Obscure

Agnostic

Never

I Don't Like Politics

To be the King of Siam, or at the very least get a kitkat that's all chocolate :)

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Obscure, Sadistic

Cartoons, Documentaries, Situation Comedies, Movies

Action, Science Fiction, Comedy

Ambient, Dance, Soul

Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Philosophy, Satire, Science, Science Fiction

Lol - On this site I'm sure you know the answer to that ;) x

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Power, Spontaneity, Oddities, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence, Passiveness

I'm looking for a strong confident women that chooses to be My sub, I dont want to have to run everypart of your life but I do like the idea of the loving Dom/sub dynamic blending into our joint lives together, nothing too obvious, just our sexy secret ;) x
I have just re-joined this site after a while away as I do have a sub who like me would love to find someone to join us for some extra play - I am Dom only while she is a switch and is quite curiopus about playing with another sub girl.

Date, Intimate, Committed, Marriage, Oral Sex, Domination, Bondage