Jefrey

Englisch

I’m cuddly with a dad bod and the jokes to match. Very switch, I enjoy either side of the gentle D/s dynamic. Not looking for a hookup. You can’t rush trust. People are people, not dopamine dispensers. Fairly new and exploring. Looking for people to talk to and get to know, maybe play eventually if we hit it off. Kind of dorky and on the spectrum, pretty self aware and actively seeking to love and appreciate myself more. Love to give and receive attention and affection.

Two years separated (still married for the healthcare benefits so that each can make ends meet, US healthcare sucks) in different states, with adult children living their best life. Understand that’s a hard limit for some, so want to be up front about it. Consent isn’t consent unless it’s informed consent. Happy to be someone’s wingman as well as play partner, and friend above all. No expectations and no pressure.

Steinbock

Ein paar Pfunde zu viel

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Kaukasisch

Getrennt

Ja - nicht zuhause

Nein

Augen

Salz und Pfeffer

Katze

Nein

Universitäts-Abschluss

Vollzeit

Ausbildung / Akademiker

Librarian

Alleine

Alles ist ruhig

Nein

Ja - Sozial

Nerd

Aufmerksam, Freundlich, Comedian, Flirtwillig

Lesen, Lernen, Musik, TV, Filme, Internet, Spiele, Theater, Kochen, Computer

Mit Freunden ausgehen, Daheim bleiben, Versuche neue Dinge, Filme, Entspannen, Videospiele spielen, TV, In ein Konzert gehen, In ein Museum gehen

Dinner, maybe drinks, maybe something fun (axe throwing, escape room, etc.) or walk around somewhere interesting or pretty. If things click maybe cuddle up with music or tv or a movie. Keep things fun and relaxed.

Heading north to see the Northern lights, learning shibari, hypnosis

Freundlich, Albern, Ein Flirt

Agnostisch

Nie

Be the better part of someone’s day

Trocken / Sarkastisch, Freundlich, Albern, Mysteriös

Science Fiction, Comedy, Drama, Dokumentation, Animation, Horror, Thriller

Rock, Metal, Electronic, Pop, Klassik, Blues, Jazz, Punk

Nachrichten, Biografie, Fantasy, Fiction, Horror, Humor, Musik, Poesie, Satire, Wissenschaft, Science Fiction, Erotisches

Enjoying company, seeing something new, laughing at ourselves, sharing experiences

Esprit, Flirtwillig, Spontanität, Sensibilität, Einfühlungsvermögen, Humor, Nachdenklich, Intelligenz

Someone who loves themselves and seeks interactions out of want rather than need, sex-positive, affectionate, relentless, kinky, attentive, gently sadistic and/or playfully submissive, loves to tease and/or be teased, control and/or be controlled, respects boundaries, appreciates lots of aftercare

Internet-Freund, Freund, Date, Vertrauter, Andere, Oralsex, Dominanz, Bondage