English, French, Other

I am a successful and capable man, who is a high achiever. I exercise power in a number of nuanced ways and offer an experience of power exchange that goes far beyond physical subjugation. My dominant personality is a natural, easy expression of my being and is not a contrived substitute for a failed masculinity. I am a leader of men and have proved myself in the most compelling of circumstances. I have had to deal with the violence of war and conflict and I am not intimidated by either, but nor am I foolhardy. I am neither a bully nor a braggart. When you are with me you will be aware that other people treat me with respect and even with caution. I generate a secure space around myself that is tangible. Professionally I am respected and liked by my peers and I am financially secure. I am also trustworthy and loyal to my friends, I will always be there when I am needed. I have a good sense of humour and I like to laugh... I certainly enjoy the company of intelligent and caring women.

Cancer

Average

6' 3 (1.91 m)

Hazel

European

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

Not Sure

Smile

Wouldn't Even Think About It

Salt And Pepper

I Own A Farm

Yes

University Degree

Full-time

Research / Science / Engineering

CEO

More Than $150,000USD

Alone

All Is Calm

No

Yes - Socially

Brain

Friendly, Comedic, Fire Starter, Strange

Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Dining, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Fishing / Hunting

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

to walk together through the park and to listen to you.

What I want... I do...

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be

Christian

Once A Month

Liberal

Really... I am 50... healthy, successful with a great career and I do what I want when I want... go where I want... I live the dream.

Clever, Friendly

I Don't Like Tv

Action

Classical

I'm An Author

My idea of fun is to live free of all constraints. I like to make things happen... I take people to places far beyond their dreams. I make the difference.

Intelligence, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfullness, Passiveness

I have the physical power to operate at a traditional and patriarchal level of compulsion and subjugation but I have always believed that power should be overwhelming in its projection and ability to survey rather than in any reductionist application of physical power. The balance between the various methods of control involves subtle applications of power... force or the threat of force is a blunt and tiresome instrument that can easily be subverted by the intelligent and capable. I have seen my own projection of power and control to be very similar to the post-modern notions expressed by Foucault in his work on discipline and punishment. I believe in the creation of panoptical forms of discipline that co-opts the surveyed into their own control. Therefore I am looking for an intelligent woman who wants to be overwhelmed and secure rather than simply coerced.

Domination, Bondage, Date