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reasonably good-looking, fun, fun-loving, Most people who know me think of me as outgoing, confident and even assertive.I do play that game pretty well. But, the real me, deep inside feels very ashamed about some of the thingsI I've done. And I often feel very inadequate as a person. I have a raging case of ADHD, So Im always late often so late that I miss the whole event or appt. I was going to. Have gotten pretty good at going down on women, and ass play,
and whole-body foreplay/worship. But 2 yrs ago, Urologist performed surgury to reduce size of my prostate (TURP) and fucked up vadly - he shrunk penis length by 2 1/2 " and width by over 1 1/2". The SOB!!!

Virgo

Average

5' 6 (1.68 m)

Brown

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Not At Home

No

Smile

Scarred

Grey

No pets

No

University Degree

Retired

Other

Mgmt. Consultant - retired

$30,000USD To $44,999USD

Alone

There Is No Noise

No

No

Class Clown

Loud, Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing

Family, Exercising, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Dancing

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert

An early dinner/drinks to get to know each other and hopefully begin to build a relationship. Enough time for my Switch Partner and I to get to know each other and make sure our desires and limits are agreed to.Then a trip to one of our homes for a 1st session.

Completely submitting to a dominant woman. By submitting to all of her orders, I'd be finally, publicly admitting just how very weak i actually feel; and how much I deserve to be 'my Dom's' slutty, little bitch. Also, I've always felt some level of humiliation and fear of inadequacy, but I've always been able to protect myself from getting into situations where my true self can be called out and be made embarrassingly public to everyone.

Friendly, Cool, I Don't Have Any Friends, A Flirt

Agnostic

Never

Very Liberal

After 3 yrs of fighting cancer, I NEED to get back into regular workouts and running. I want my slim and muscular body back so that I can do tough physical tasks again. And get back into fast swing dancing again.

Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Raunchy

News, Documentaries, Instructional, Sports

Action, Drama, Documentary, Adult

Rock, Blues, Jazz, Dance, Soul

News, Business, Health, History, Instructional, Political, Erotica

Swing dancing,working out, & long, delicious nights of love-making

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Power, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

Well for this BDSM website I'm looking for a Switch. to humiliate me, and punish me painfully. Then later in the same session or in the next one, she'll become my submissive. But I'm afraid of my mistress's reaction when i ask her to be careful when doing some things, or when I beg her to not even do certain things that are risky because of my past cancer and/or chemotherapy. For eg, I can't be harshly whipped because that can cause small rips/tears to the skin from which I can bleed out and/or easily get an infection.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Other, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Domination, Bondage, Strap On Sex, Secretive Sex, Committed